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I am not sharing this well researched finding just because my daughter’s novel “Enchanted Incognito” has just been published or because I too am a bit of a writer. Unfortunately since the early 19th century though, often, women have used male pseudonyms, just when they were beginning to get into literature and they felt that they would not be taken as seriously by readers as male authors. For example:
Louisa May Alcott: Prominent 19th century writer Louisa May Alcott began her career under the male pen name A. M. Barnard. You remember Little Women ( I did it for Literature in 1984)
Joanne Rowling: As author of the outrageously popular series Harry Potter, J. K. Rowling gained widespread popularity in a span of only a few years.
Nelle Harper Lee: Writing under the abbreviated name Harper Lee, Lee’s pen name does not necessarily disguise her identity, but does make her authorship fairly androgynous. Harper Lee became wildly famous for her novel To Kill a Mockingbird. I did this one for Literature too and only discovered today that he was a she! 🙂
But if thou had a looketh at the survey conducted by Grammarly … you will see that if George Eliot were alive today, she would be better off sticking with her real name. After a ton of questions, over 3,000 respondents indicated that they believe women are better writers.
Men generally “got to the point,” while we women were more likely to focus on “character development.”
Women were more likely to write about people, while men write more about things. We also are more adept at crafting longer sentences. 🙂
In conclusion, Grammarly stated that, “Women tend to be more descriptive in their writing, and spend more time developing a greater variety of characters than men. Perhaps as a result, women are generally regarded to be better writers than men.”
See the detailed infographic.
Haven’t you formed an impression of a person just by reading their posts on social media or in articles? We subconsciously evaluate a person’s capabilities and intelligence from their use of grammar and here’s proof. In a survey of the work of freelancers, Grammarly showed in an info graphic, the relationship between a professional’s writing skills and the pay he could command.
As they summarized, it does not hurt to proofread your communication and to put your best foot forward – grammatically!
Day 1 – SEE
ARE YOU “ON SCHEDULE” TO ACHIEVING YOUR GOALS AND DREAMS
Some people are, some aren’t. But many have given up already.
Why is that only some people will end the year with SUCCESS?
I have some answers.
I don’t know what your goals and dreams are for the year,
but whether it’s increasing your income, increasing
happiness or getting the love you deserve (or buying
your dream home)… there’s still TIME left to make it
happen this year!!
potential — so you can achieve these goals and
dreams… Or are you slamming against closed doors and
My new 5 part mini-coaching is titled “5 KEYS TO BEGIN
LIVING YOUR DREAMS.” It will help you unlock the doors
of opportunity for your goals and dreams. Best of all…
… it’s available at no cost. All you have to do is act
This may be the boost you need to achieve your biggest
dreams. People all over the world are tuning in
*right now!!* Check it out!! It won’t be available
Just to give you a preview… today (day#1) is themed
around what you “SEE.”
What does this mean?
To get better results, we must have crystal clear, 20/20
vision in every area of your life.
Without it… you can expect more -un-necessary –
delays, upsets, disappointments, frustration and
detours and lock-outs!! Now, here’s the surprising part.
What if… perhaps, you’ve been wearing a BLINDFOLD for
the past few months, years or decades of your life. What
if… you’ve been mis-judging your reality?
Maybe you haven’t. But in this module I’m going to show
and prove to you, that it’s possible and likely you’ve been suffering from a hidden from of “life-blindness.”
If so, that’s okay, because there is a remedy.
With this corrective 20/20 vision, you can
more clearly steer your life into the future you’ve
Tune in now for this free VISION EXAM and discover
how you can begin living
the life of your dreams. When you see differently, you
can live differently.
This eye opening series may be just what you’ve been waiting for.
Remember, it’s totally free! No strings, no obligations.
Just click on the link below to get access.
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P.S. Don’t hesitate to join this program with the rest
of us. It’s worth your time. But more
importantly… it’s worth your life.
Even if you’re already living your dreams, this program
can help you stay *on schedule* with achieving the next
big dream on your list.
Day 2 – DECISIONS
What NEW decisions do you need to make to change your
You probably have an idea of how you want things to be
different… but according to my work with coaching
clients, one of the most frustrating problems they face
is knowing WHICH decision to make.
When you increase and heighten your ability to make
POWERFUL decisions, you can eliminate the GUESSWORK of
getting the success, achievement and results you desire.
And you can achieve your goals and dreams in a fraction
of the time. You can do this!!
The truth is… it’s going to take new DECISIONS and
bold DECLARATIONS to get DIFFERENT results in your life.
You may have heard this “cliche” statement before, but
I’m sure no one has explained it the way I will. In
today’s session, I reveal Key #2 and how you can use
this key to unlock the doors to your grandest desires.
One DECISION you have to make is the REFUSAL to accept
anything less than the best for your life. Another
decision you must make, is the CHOICE to consistently
take action to get the life you desire. But there are
other critical decisions you must make for MAXIMUM
results. I’ll reveal them inside.
Make great decisions today and live the best life
No matter where you are in life… there’s always room for
improvement. Am I wrong?
I hope not. Whether you’re rich and famous, single,
married, unemployed or making six figures, happy or
sad…my role is to help you live the best life
Take advantage of this mini-series. Start now. It costs
you nothing!!! If there’s something else I can do to
help you reach your dreams, I’d like to know about it.
Key #3 is The Gap- between what you can SEE and what you really want….
In Key #4 I outline the actions you must take after
you’ve made the decision to bridge the gap between where
you are and where you want to be.
But more importantly, you’ll discover HOW to take action
in a powerful way that’s different than the way you
might normally take action.
And once you take that action, the next most useful KEY
to unlock your dreams is key #5 : CONTINUITY.
Taken from my very first book: Thankfulness, Appreciation Gratitude
Where we are in life is made up of the sum of our habits. Our physical, financial and mental health is the total of the little things we do every day. Instilling a daily habit of writing in this diary will change your life in ways you cannot imagine. The simple act of expressing gratefulness and feeling it takes away all negativity – ear, stress, guilt, lack and sadness, and you will feel awesome, even the good feelings only lasts for the few moments that you are writing in the journal, this daily habit and the positive vibrations will add up and help you manifest a life full of joy and happiness.
Think for one moment of the thousands of people in Leh who were rendered homeless overnight in August 2010, do you have a roof over your head? Are you dry? What about the Northwestern Chinese who also suffered due to the rain triggered mudslide. Imagine losing your family and friends overnight. Did you know that in Vietnam, the per capita income in 2008 was just over $1,000 a year. That is only $2.80 a day, how much did your lunch cost today? 1.6 billion people are living in darkness, 400 million are from India and many of them use wax candles, dung cakes and firewood to illuminate their homes. Do we even give it a second thought when we hit the light switch in our homes? Are you grateful? A huge percentage of the world’s population is illiterate. Can you read? A portion of the world’s population is less than physically or mentally whole. Can you see? Can you hear? Can you walk? Is there anything you have that others don’t? A phone? An internet connection? A motorbike? Is there anything you can do that others can’t? Do you have a talent? Have you – in actuality – been blessed with anything for which to be grateful?
When you are feeling grateful and thankful for being healthy and alive, that is the purest form of prayer. In those moments of feeling thankful you are in a natural state of abundance. You are focusing all your energy on what you already have in your life. The polar opposite of which is complaining. When you complain, about the weather, the traffic, your bills, people around you, you are magnifying what is lacking in your life.
I started to practice gratitude by writing every night in a journal. This practice changed my life. Having ready countless self-help and personal development books and attended so many workshops, the one constant message that I received and decided to instill as a habit was to write down the things I am grateful for, every night. Some nights I struggled, when everything seemed to have gone wrong, and I could not think of being grateful and some nights I was just too lazy to put pen to paper, then it started to work in reverse, I went about my day, noticing things I was grateful for and made mental notes and sometimes, would type text messages to myself on my phone, so I did not forget. A cup of tea with just the right amount of sugar. An umbrella handy when it started to rain, a parking spot, a smile, a gesture from a shopkeeper, or a waiter. Someone giving me way in traffic. The flavour of the food I ate, the almost fender bender that did not happen, because I braked my car in time. A sale tag on the dress that I intended to buy anyway. Tissue paper handy when I needed it, 5 cent pieces on the ground, my daughter’s health and happiness, soft cotton sheets on my bed, the music playing on my ipod, the beautiful art that surrounded me.
The Swedish pop-group, ABBA so aptly said in their song “Thank you for the Music” in 1973 – “Thank you for the music, the song I am singing, thanks for all the joy their bringing, who can live without it, I ask in all honesty, what would life be, without a song or a dance, what are we?” Beauty surrounds us all the time, in architecture, people, music, art but to actually stop, live in the present and appreciate our surroundings and to remember the moment again later in the day and write thanks for them is a practice that will attract more and more beauty in your life.
As time went by, I stopped looking for things or events, or anything tangible, but rather found myself listing names of the people who touched my life that day. In hindsight, I even realized that I was grateful for the people I met who seemed to rub me the wrong way or disappoint me in some way, for those meetings led to a learning or a new opportunity. Feeling gratitude and then writing it in my journal at the end of the day became second nature. I formed a very empowering habit. In fact, thinking about things to be grateful for every night will help you even sleep better, this is simply because you will think less negative and more positive thoughts as you put your head on your pillow.
Yes it is easy to be grateful when things seem to be going well, practice being grateful for even the challenges in your life, look for what is still good and what you still have even when things seem really bleak. This is not new, I did not discover the power of practicing gratitude, however with this diary, I am hoping that you will make it a habit to practice what you already know.As it is what you do a little of every single day that will add up to create a bank of abundance in your life.
Look for the beauty and joy in life, the simple things like waking up on a soft bed, your family and loved ones around you healthy, beautiful sunrises, and inhale as you acknowledge it all. Being able to stop the noise of your worries and stresses of the day for a few moments and to focus on the present and your breathing will encourage you to feel good and happy about all the things you have. When you have your meal, savour the taste, the colours and aroma of all the ingredients. When you have a shower, savour the water temperature and pressure, the fragrance of your soap. Training your mind to truly appreciate everything that you have will help you create a constant attitude of gratitude. Remember these things you are thankful for and write them down in here at the end of the day. On challenging days, when things just did not seem to go your way, these are the times when it would be most helpful to look for the silver lining in the clouds and find some things that you can feel grateful for.
Stop for a moment and observe your surroundings right now and notice three things that you did not even notice you are using till I asked you to have a look, that make your life so easy. Is your air conditioner or heater on? Are you in a comfortable room or a sofa or a bed? Do you have music or the television on in the background? Did you just have a lovely meal? Can you think of one person in the world who cares where you are and how you are today?
Any time I feel like I have some reason to feel sorry for myself, I look around me at all the tools and privileges I have in that particular moment, and I imagine what it would be like to be missing one of them right now.
Things could be worse, imagine being stuck in the same traffic jam, but having to go to the bathroom really badly? Imagine losing your wallet at the airport when you are just about to travel. We only notice what we have around us when it is taken away. This diary is meant to help you cultivate the habit of noticing what you have around you while you have it.
I am not a scientist who has studied Quantum Physics and I am not here to quantify anything I say with statistics, percentages and researched or surveyed proof, what I can say, is that I have seen it work, for me and people around me. Being grateful, creates a feeling, an almost overwhelming feeling, which causes a vibration on a deep level. I believe that these vibrations connect us to the Universe and attract like vibrations. Simply put, the more grateful you are, the more you will have to be grateful for.
On that note, I have been writing in my Gratitude Diary for the last two years and everyday, I have more and more to be grateful for.
Everything I want and need makes its way to me. At the risk of sounding like a nagging mum telling her children to eat their vegetables, because she knows that they are good for them, please start writing in here every night and get all the people you love to do the same. It is just that this works and I really want you to experience what I know you will. There is immense power in words and putting your appreciation for someone or something into words that are expressed can change your life.
My invitation to you is to take it on as a “90 day challenge”. Start tonight, find today’s page and start. I have carefully compiled quotes, short stories, poems and tips in between the pages to inspire you to write.
With Thankfulness, Appreciation & Gratitude,
Professional Coach (PCC – ICF) l Author l Facilitator l Speaker | Life Coach trained in Ontological Coaching & NLP
Skype : malti.bhojwani
|“Life is not a maze where you have your eyes on the gaps, life is a beautiful journey, stop looking for what’s not there, instead look at what IS.” – Malti Bhojwani – Bestselling Author “Don’t Think of a Blue Ball” Quote from upcoming publication, “365 Tweetable Quotes“|
“Gratitude is not only the greatest of the virtues but the parent of all others.” Cicero
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I’m sure you’ve all read many self help books, attended many workshops and discourses…
The message is rarely new or a surprise….yet after the initial ray of hope or enlightenment… you feel unfulfilled and you continue to wait and wait….so what is it that keeps you searching for a magic fix? Where is the missing link….when every time you feel inspired you realise you already know all this. You nod to yourself in agreement, you continue to forward quotes like a torch….but when will your time come? In this audio program Decide, Declare, Achieve – If not now, then when?
I don’t feed you more of the same, we will however partner, you and me as you make that switch. The truth is the truth, the recipe is the same, this is why everyone is basically saying the same thing. We don’t need more information. We do need implementation.
Imagine a song being broadcast internationally performed by different artists in various genres and languages, the lyrics don’t change but we can only listen when we have a radio receiver, picking up the transmission on the frequency where we get a clear reception. When we find a station that sounds right, we fine tune even more and then voila. … Our space, mind, hearts and bodies are filled with the music that we can understand and dance to. I have connected with many….if you feel that connection with my transmission…if your heart is telling you to partner with me now on making that switch…Decide now….
This program will give you:
* Clarity in YOUR dream life & clarity to see who you truly ARE
* Courage to get off the fence and DECIDE, clearing the way forward
* Encouragement to eliminate your safety nets and DECLARE
Malti’s words and energy will penetrate your soul in ways that will ignite your own fire and help you SHINE
Listening to her empathetic and caring tone, will help you:
* Jump OVER the hurdles that impair your vision
Feeling the strength from her own personal breakthroughs, will help you:
* Overcome your FEARS and ACHIEVE your DREAMS!
Make the switch now, it does not take years of self-work or hard-knocks to get you there, it takes a decision and making a decision will take just one instant.
Do you feel frustrated with life? Do you sometimes suffer from low self worth, and get truly fed up of waiting for your future life to be present now? Or perhaps your life is alright, but you have a deep sense of wanting more….?
Does this sound like your thoughts?
“My dreams are huge, but they will take time”
“Maybe someday, when I have saved up more money”
“After this or that….”
“This is so hard, nothing I do will make a difference”
Does it look like your tomorrows are getting you down, you feel so empty, like a vacuum and then you suck up even more negativity from the events and drama around you. You feel despair, sad, “hope-less” and you wonder, “will I ever make it in the way I dream of?” then the answer is,
Yes, you can…
Well that has been the story of Malti’s life, until now…
She too used to wait, yearn, pray, and long for her life to improve in the future, she too would lose herself in distractions and hope for things to change, a stroke of luck, a windfall or a miracle, only to return to the reality of despair, heartbreak, divorce, guilt, shame, debt, pain, obesity and low self worth.
“I have been below rock bottom, in every area of my life. Physically, financially and emotionally, until I finally made the switch, the connection, had the insight, saw the light and voila!” – Malti
Today, she has devoted her life to coaching individuals and has helped people to create new and lasting results in their relationships, work, health and finances. Personalised life coaching can be a time and money investment that you are not ready for, but that does not mean that you can’t enjoy the benefits of what Malti has to offer.
Malti’s personalised sessions range from $570 – $1997 but in this one-hour program, she has shared everything you need to know in order to get to the front of the train and steam up the engines so you too can live out your dreams, immediately for a fraction of her regular coaching fees. (to read more about Malti, visithttp://maltibhojwani.com/blog/?p=217)
Do you want to make that switch once and for all too?
Do you want to stop waiting and hoping for something to happen?
What would it feel like when you are able to overcome that one big challenge and can start living the rest of your life in joy?
What will it look like when you can serve the people in your life, and give them all of you.
Or would you rather stay there comfortably hiding behind TV shows, social media, seeking out free or quick fixes, occupying your time with senseless meetings and mindless indulgences till you are ready?
Who would you be WITHOUT that one big problem that nags you every morning when you wake, stays with you like a shadow all day and then creeps into bed with you again each night?
If only I _________, then my life would start working and I will be able to be my true SHINING self? As the 80/20 rule states, most of your joy will come from nailing just 1 of your goals.
Well, we have no doubt that you will solve this one challenge and come out victorious, successful and happy. It isn’t a matter of will you or won’t you, but it is a question of will you put it off again?
Most Frequently Asked Question:
“How can a 1-hour program help me achieve my goals, when I have tried everything, attended many seminars, workshops and read countless self-help books?” “How can a 1-hour program help me increase my self-worth, feel happier, lose weight, find love or make more money?”
You may not hear anything you don’t already know deep inside, but with Malti’s having overcome her own challenges, her 14 years of experience as a professional life coach and as a trained Ontological Coach and NLP Practitioner, her gentle voice and the authenticity in her sharing, will touch your inner-being in a way that will urge you to make your decision to SHINE, now!
And when you learn the secret of getting into the FLOW, then your FEARS will turn into FAITH which will permeate into your whole being and hence bless your whole life! Once you learn it, you can’t unlearn it! It will be yours FOREVER!
Motivation does not last, and as Zig Ziglar so aptly said, “that’s why it is recommended daily, like bathing”!
We need to feed it to our thoughts, bodies and emotions frequently to help re-wire our old neuro-pathways.
This recording contains all the information you need so that you can install and re-install the thoughts and ways of being that will support you in moving in the direction of your dreams. It includes a short section that has been specially designed for you to listen to frequently to help you stay motivated and keep going.
If you never stop, you can’t fail! If you never quit, you will win! But you must start!
Release date: 15th June 2014 via download for $7.50